Thursday, May 27, 2010

Edna T Pays Tribute to Her mother Virginia Shulz Deaton

Today's story of a strong woman is by Edna Deaton Tollison, a faithful follower of this blog and supporter of Christian writers. When she won a giveaway on this blog, she sent me a lovely butterfly she'd crocheted. That butterfly lives on my refrigerator now. Here's Edna and the story of her mother in her own words:

"My mother was born in 1898 and died 1980. She was forty five when I came along and she already had nine other children.
She was born to Johan and Elizabeth Schultz and her Mother died in childbirth when she was four. The baby was passed on to an aunt to raise, but Mama had to stay with my grandfather. He was a full German. He later remarried and the step-mom was not that great to my Mom. She went to school only to the forth grade, but she could read and write.

She married my dad when she was twenty years old and had the ten children. She never worked outside the home and they farmed and always had a garden. My dad passed away with cancer in nineteen fifty-one when I was eight years old and left my Mother with four children still at home. she received social security off my Dad until we reached eighteen. But that is what I was raised on, and she did sewing, washing and ironing, and she always backed cakes for anyone that wanted to pay a little for them. We lived in an old house that my Dad had built when they first married. But thank God I loved school so well that I was the only one of the ten children that finished high school. All of my siblings are gone down except the brother just above me that is seven years older. I am so glad that my Mother lived long enough that she didn't lose any of her children while she was here on this old earth.

She was very Religious but didn't accept Christ as her Savior until nineteen sixty-eight, but once she did she was a very good Christian.

She fell in nineteen eighty on her door steps as she came home from a Wednesday night service. She lay there for a good while before my brother heard her, he lived next door, and came and got her up. Then she could no longer stay at home by herself. We took her from house to house as she stayed with different children until on the night of my oldest son's graduation and she fell at my sister's house and we had to take her to the hospital. She seem to be doing well but on a Friday in June I was called as I live two hours away from all the rest, and I made it up there but she had tubes coming out of her and was bleeding inside. No one know why, but she left us that night and went to be with the Lord.

I have her picture in my family room and I look at her and still talk to her, she was the best Mother there ever was and I still miss her today after thirty years. I raised four children of my own and wish she could have known my grandchildren.

Edna Tollison
Laurens, SC

My blog is http://edna-myfavoritethings.blogspot.com

Thank you so much, Edna, for sharing such a wonderful life with us. --Lyn

11 comments:

Linda said...

What a difficult life. Can't imagine losing a father at age 8. But to me, those are the lives that exude strength. So happy your mom got saved. Thanks for sharing.
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Nancy said...

She sounds like a wonderful example as a mother, and reminds me of my grandmother, who was also a very strong woman. She had 28 grandchildren and we all feel like we were her favorite!

Juanita wickey said...

Thank you for sharing about your mother. More people should honor their parents in any way they can, may not have been perfect, but they went through a lot to get us where we are.
Juanita Wickey
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squiresj said...

I know how you feel. My Mother is a Strong Woman was featured on this very blog last year thinking my Mother would not make it to Mother's Day. She passed Mother's Day, Thanksgiving, Christmas, and her birthday. But Jan. 31st she went home to Jesus after a three year battle with Alhemizer's which still makes me weep. The torture she endured at Nursing Homes the past 2 1/2 months broke my heart. I wish she would have come and lived with me. She was 81. At her funeral I read my piece but my Mother got to read it last year while she still could and had it with her in her Bible.
God Bless. I cry over my loss too.
Now my oldest is having my first grandbaby and my Mama who was very special to her won't be here.

Lyn Cote said...

Losing our mothers is very hard. I was happy that Jane, Edna and others have had the opportunity to pay tribute to them here.
I'll be doing this again next year so when I send out the call for stories, please let me know you'd like to participate.

Lisa Sachs said...

Thank you Edna for sharing your story. I'm sure it was very difficult for you. It sounds like you have a lot of strength and were able to make the best of difficult times. Good luck to you in your future.

Edna said...

Thank all of your for your comments, I really miss my mother even if it has been a long time. I want to thank Lyn for posting this for me and I am going to put it on my blog so visit me there also,

http://edna-myfavoritethings.blogspot.com/

Edna said...

I also want to invite all to my Receip blog honoring my Mother and some of her favorite southern receipes

http://ednasreceipes.blogspot.com/

Lyn Cote said...

Thanks, Edna. I'll drop by and check out those recipes!

ptclayton said...

What a hard life.It reminds me of my beautiful grandmother who just turned 99 and since it is Memorial Day my grandfather who just turned 80 i call them daily they live in calif and i live in Iowa ,,,They have a beautiful story but it started out not that way for either of them but when they found each other life blossomed out and they are still so happy spending 100% of their time together and loving it,,,Happy Memorial Day,,

Joan said...

What a wonderful story. Thank you for sharing it with us.